Sunday, March 18, 2012

Do you hate yourself?

Many of us hate when they could not perform well in sports or examinations. Why we hate ourselves when we can not achieve something in life. Because we have some ideals, if we achieve those ideals our ego gets fulfilled.We look at people and society for gratification. If people reward you for achieving your ideals then you feel better. We believe that if we don't have ideals then we will become worthless, we will lose the vision. First we set the goal and then we run after the goal. If we achieve that goal we feel good otherwise we become depressed.

When we set ideals and goal they become our life. Then present moment has no value only the future becomes more important. We feel empty inside till we achieve our goal. And when we reach our goal that goal lose its significance and importance. Then something other becomes more important. This is vicious circle. We are not satisfied with what we are. We always trying to become something different. Then imitation becomes more important than the real thing.

Can we live without ideals? Have you ever thought this? Why you are afraid to be what you are? Why give more importance to 'what should be'? Suppose you don't like study or sports then why don't you live with that reality and why don't you accept this fact. If you accept this fact then something totally different will happen in your life. Then new doors will open. Then you will find and do what you really love. When you do what you really love then you don't pay attention to public opinion. Then you don't look at society for approval. Then you don't have any ideal in your life. Then you are relaxed. When you are relaxed and you do what you really love then you become more creative.

To find out what you love to do is more important then to set goals and ideals and then to chase them. These ideals are not your hearts desire or longing. That's why even if you achieve that ideals you will feel empty inside even after you achieve them. When you become what you are then there is beauty and grace.After reading this post find out that extraordinary thing in which you will lose the track of time.

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