Sunday, March 18, 2012

How to choose the right attitude in any situation?

In some situations there is a possibility of many choices. When you are puzzled you can not make a choice, for example whether to fight or remain calm in a particular situation. Both choices seems correct, so what one should do in this situation?

So the question is, what is the right attitude and how to find it in any situation? A right attitude is not a fixed attitude. Life is moving so you can not remain fix. You have to be dynamic and flexible yet you should not get confused between different choices. 

In my view the right attitude in every situation is to try to use that situation for growth and perfection. In each situation there is a suitable attitude which can serve you for the growth. There are different situations, in some situation you may want the calm and in another you may want force, in some situation you may want health and in some situation you may want courage.

When you are confused because you have to choose among two or four possible choices, results, decisions or views and you don't know what is right then you must contact your inner being. You should present your problem to the innermost core of your being and ask for the right choice or decision. 

To find the right attitude one should detach himself from superficial things and withdraw into an inner calmness and tranquility. From that inner space you will make the right decision. In each case there is a right choice and attitude which you can find in inner space. This is quite difficult art - to keep finding the right attitude and balancing yourself in multiple contradictory situations. But this is part of your spiritual journey.

Spirituality and physical life are not two separate things. Finding a balancing point in physical life is spirituality. You need to be very conscious to take the right way. You need to be very alert. Right attitude comes spontaneously when you take shelter in the inner being.

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